docs: restructure connection-parameter tables to Option/Type/Thrift/Kernel/Default/Note

Add `Type` and `Default Value` columns to every parameter table and rename the
`Gap` column to `Note`. Types come from the public `ConnectionOptions` /
`ExecuteStatementOptions` shapes (`IDBSQLClient.ts`, `IDBSQLSession.ts`);
defaults come from `DBSQLClientDefaults` (`DBSQLClient.ts`) and
`DEFAULT_TELEMETRY_CONFIG` (`telemetry/types.ts`). The telemetry section's prose
"Aspect" table is replaced with a full per-option table (one row per
`telemetry*` knob with its default), and the events caveat is kept as a note.

Formatted with `prettier --write` so `prettier . --check` passes (the file
previously failed the check).

Co-authored-by: Isaac

Author: eric-wang-1990