pathlib: use PID liveness as primary stale-lock signal

[jawauntb]

Refs #14935 (part 2 of 3).

What

ensure_deletable in _pytest/pathlib.py now reads the PID stored in a
session's .lock file and probes it for liveness (os.kill(pid, 0) on
POSIX, OpenProcess on Windows) as its primary signal. The historical
LOCK_TIMEOUT = 3 days mtime check is retained as a fallback for locks
whose contents cannot be parsed (empty, corrupted, partially written).

Why

The current implementation treats a .lock as dead purely by mtime age:

if lock_time < consider_lock_dead_if_created_before:
    lock.unlink(); return True

Two failure modes fall out of that:

1. Dead scratch survives three days. A crashed session's directory
   isn't reclaimable until three days after its lock was last touched, even
   though the process is obviously gone.
2. Live scratch gets reaped mid-run. A long-running suite whose .lock
   mtime crosses the three-day threshold can have its own scratch removed
   by a concurrent cleanup.

Both are fixed by the same one-line diagnosis: pytest already writes the
PID into the lock (create_cleanup_lock in pathlib.py); it just never
reads it back.

Behavior matrix

	Old (mtime only)	New (pid primary)
Lock owner alive, mtime new	not deletable	not deletable
Lock owner alive, mtime > 3d	deletable (wrong)	not deletable
Lock owner dead, mtime new	not deletable (waits 3d)	deletable (correct, immediate)
Lock owner dead, mtime > 3d	deletable	deletable
Lock unreadable/corrupt	mtime path	mtime path (fallback preserved)

Windows

Windows liveness uses OpenProcess(PROCESS_QUERY_LIMITED_INFORMATION, …)
plus GetExitCodeProcess. ERROR_INVALID_PARAMETER (87) is the canonical
"no such process" return; any other failure is treated conservatively as
"assume alive" so unfamiliar edge cases fall through to the mtime fallback
rather than aggressively deleting.

PID recycling

If a lock's PID has been recycled to a different process, _pid_alive
returns True and cleanup waits. That's conservative but safe: the mtime
fallback still takes over after LOCK_TIMEOUT. This does not regress any
existing behavior.

Tests

• test_cleanup_locked updated: with the current process's PID in the
  lock, ensure_deletable returns False regardless of mtime threshold —
  which is the point of the change.
• test_cleanup_dead_pid_deletable_regardless_of_mtime — asserts a lock
  naming a nonexistent PID is deletable immediately, without waiting for
  LOCK_TIMEOUT.
• test_cleanup_unreadable_lock_falls_back_to_mtime — asserts the mtime
  path still applies when the lock's contents can't be parsed.

Local runs: test_pathlib.py + test_tmpdir.py + test_pytester.py →
223 passed, 3 skipped, 1 xfailed.

Scope

Independent of #14936 (the .origin sidecar). Either can land first.
The third planned PR (per-rootdir retention layout) is not in this change.

Changelog

changelog/14935.improvement.rst — same tracking issue as the other two
PRs; towncrier will render them together.

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